Orgasm is not the objective of the Lingam massage but it can be a pleasant and welcome side effect. The objective of Lingam massage, including the testicles, perineum and the secret spot (prostate) externally, is that the man surrenders himself to a form of pleasure he is not used to. One has to learn to relax and to receive. Traditional sexual attitudes have forced the man into a conductance oriented mode. The Lingam Massage lets the man experience his softer, receiving side to a pleasure in a non-traditional perspective.
The Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ is Lingam and is freely translated as the “Wall of Light.” In Tantra, or Holy Sexuality, the Lingam is regarded respectfully and honoured, as a “Wall of Light” that channels energy and pleasure. Our Lingam massage ensures total relaxation of body and mind. A total surrender and flow of energy reigns over you and afterwards you experience total freedom and relaxation. This state of mind can be experienced for hours and sometimes even days after the erotic massage.
Preparation for the Lingam massage
This erotic massage is given in nicely warm and attractively decorated massage rooms.
Before starting the massage, you have a lovely shower with the masseuse. Afterwards you take your position on a massage bed or couch.
With cushions under your head in order to see you everything properly and cushions under your hips to conduct the Lingam massage well… with your legs spread, your knees slightly bent and genitals clearly exposed, you start a breathing exercise together with the masseuse in order to aid relaxation. The masseuse gently starts to massage your legs, abdomen, thighs, chest, nipples, etc., to make you relax more. Good breathing helps to get into an ever deeper state of relaxation.
What does the lingam massage entail?
When you are relaxed, the masseuse pours a small amount of oil on the shaft of the Lingam and testicles. She gently starts to massage the testicles with a tenderness that doesn’t hurt in this sensitive area. She gently massages the scrotum, making you relax even more. The masseuse continues with the area above the Lingam, to the pubic bone. The Lingam massage continues with massaging of the perineum, the area between the testicles and the anus. Next she massages the shaft of the Lingam, varying in speed and pressure. She will carefully squeeze the Lingam at the base, with her right hand, pulling upwards and sliding downwards, then she will alternate with her left hand. Right, left, right, left… she will then change direction by beginning to gently squeeze the glans, (the head of the Lingam) and then slide upwards and downwards. Also alternating her left and right hands. By varying the firmness of the massage this provides for an experience just like a tantric massage. Hardness and softness are two poles of the pleasure spectrum. If you are about to ejaculate, the masseuse will slow down, allowing the Lingam to soften slightly, and letting you relax, to continue the massage afterwards . This happens a few times and each time ejaculation is close, she slows down again. It is important to remember that an orgasm itself is not the objective of a Lingam massage. This way, one can learn to master the ejaculation. Breathing deeply is the key and will help to lessen the urge to ejaculate. Mastering your own ejaculation will allow you to achieve multiple orgasms without a drop of sperm being spilt. Orgasm and ejaculation are two different things that you can learn to distinguish.
Closure of the Lingam massage
In order to expand the pleasure, the masseuse will look for the ‘male holy spot’, just like during an EXTERNAL prostate massage. By stimulating this, the enjoyment of this Lingam massage will achieve great heights. Unprecedented emotions can take control of you. The masseuse is always your best friend to trust during such intimacy. When the massage is ‘complete’, the masseuse will carefully pull back her soft and warm hands and leave you to rest for a few minutes before having a lovely shower with her to finish.« Back